The Best Gifts for Neat Freaks, According to TikTok

It might seem contrary to gift-giving norms to present someone with tools meant for housework, but there are simply some neat freaks out there who love cleaning and would be thrilled to get a vacuum or something. Whether or not you understand them, you can get them what they want this year. TikTok is full of recommendations for awesome cleaning supplies, so let’s look at some of the trending tools to make their floors sparkle and their hearts sing. 

Best cleaning tools for the kitchen and bathroom

These tools are getting hyped on TikTok for their ability to clean the dirtiest spots in a home. They’re time- and energy-saving, too, so they make relatively relaxing and considerate gifts.

  • Electric scrub brushes are very trendy among influencers and CleanTokkers. Your best option is one that does a lot of different things, like this one from Voweek ($42.29). It has four different heads, plus it’s extendable, so they can clean near and far without ever having to bend over. 

  • The O-Cedar EasyWring Mop ($24.49) is the reigning cleaning gadget of TikTok and is also the #1 best selling mop on Amazon. If your gift recipient doesn’t have one yet, you’re about to become the hero of the holidays. 

  • Another solid mop option is the Scratch self-cleaning mop, but it’s sold out on Amazon, probably because it’s super popular on social media. Don’t worry! There are dupes, like the Joymoop mop and bucket ($37.90), which comes with a wringer set and three washable pads. 

  • The Broombi silicone broom is kind of like a squeegee that you can use on both hard flooring and carpet to easily corral dirt, pet hair, crumbs, or whatever else. Plus, it’s satisfying to watch, which is why there are so many videos of people using it.

Cleaning tools for the living room

The kitchen and bathroom always get the most press when it comes to cleaning since they’re dirty in the unhygienic, germ-y way. But you know what? Cleaning a living room is still important, and any true neat freak cares very deeply about how their common spaces look. 

Random cleaning tools

Some cleaning tools don’t fit neatly into categories but are very useful for specific things. Neat freaks can be particular, so if you’re worried about getting the wrong big cleaning tool, why not try a small, fun one? 

  • SneakErasers ($11.99) remove scuffs and dirt from shoes, plus they come in a 10-pack and are trending right now. Bonus: The cylinder shape of the packaging makes them easy to wrap or stuff in a stocking. 

  • Duster sponges ($6.99 for eight) are also really popular for their ability to clean crumbs and dirt off of basically anything. People love sharing videos of themselves using the ridges to trap crumbs that, frankly, never stood a chance.

  • Multifunction tech cleaning tools are big online because they help tidy up the devices we use every day. This one from Crysfiy ($9.99) has everything you need to clean under your keyboard keys, inside the crevices of your phone, and the exterior of all your tech. Best of all, it’s not likely your intended gift recipient will already have one. Watch a demonstration here

USDA Signs Agreement with Agriculture Future of America to Prepare Young People for Careers in Agriculture

WASHINGTON, Dec. 12, 2023 – U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) Secretary Tom Vilsack has signed a Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) with Agriculture Future of America (AFA), formalizing a partnership to promote the common goals of strengthening the future competitiveness and sustainability of the U.S. agriculture industry by preparing more young people for careers in agriculture.

Today’s Wordle Hints (and Answer) for Tuesday, December 12, 2023

If you’re looking for the Wordle answer for December 12, 2023 read on. We’ll share some clues, tips, and strategies, and finally the solution. Today’s puzzle is on the easier side; I got it in 3. Wordlebot scores the average as 3.4. Beware, there are spoilers below for December 12, Wordle #906! Keep scrolling if you want some hints (and then the answer) to today’s Wordle game.

How to play Wordle

Wordle lives here on the New York Times website. A new puzzle goes live every day at midnight, your local time.

Start by guessing a five-letter word. The letters of the word will turn green if they’re correct, yellow if you have the right letter in the wrong place, or gray if the letter isn’t in the day’s secret word at all. For more, check out our guide to playing Wordle here, and my strategy guide here for more advanced tips. (We also have more information at the bottom of this post, after the hints and answers.)

Ready for the hints? Let’s go!


Does today’s Wordle have any unusual letters?

We’ll define common letters as those that appear in the old typesetters’ phrase ETAOIN SHRDLU. (Memorize this! Pronounce it “Edwin Shirdloo,” like a name, and pretend he’s a friend of yours.)

We have 100% common letters in today’s word!

Can you give me a hint for today’s Wordle?

It’s a demonstrative pronoun, that is, a word we use to indicate a specific thing or group of things without naming them. 

Does today’s Wordle have any double or repeated letters?

Yes, there is a letter that’s in there twice.

How many vowels are in today’s Wordle?

Just one, but it’s used in two different places.

What letter does today’s Wordle start with?

Today’s word starts with T.

What letter does today’s Wordle end with?

Today’s word ends with E.

What is the solution to today’s Wordle?

Ready? Today’s word is THESE.

How I solved today’s Wordle

ARISE got me the S and the E; TOUCH got me the T and told me to find a place for an H. THESE and THOSE would both fit, but I already knew there was no O–so a second E would have to be the middle letter.

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A primer on Wordle basics

The idea of Wordle is to guess the day’s secret word. When you first open the Wordle game, you’ll see an empty grid of letters. It’s up to you to make the first move: type in any five-letter word. 

Now, you can use the colors that are revealed to get clues about the word: 

  • Green means you correctly guessed a letter, and it’s in the correct position. (For example, if you guess PARTY, and the word is actually PURSE, the P and R will be green.)

  • Yellow means the letter is somewhere in the word, but not in the position you guessed it. (For example, if you guessed PARTY, but the word is actually ROAST, the R, A and T will all be yellow.)

  • Gray means the letter is not in the solution word at all. (If you guessed PARTY and everything is gray, then the solution cannot be PURSE or ROAST.)

With all that in mind, guess another word, and then another, trying to land on the correct word before you run out of chances. You get six guesses, and then it’s game over.

The best starter words for Wordle

What should you play for that first guess? The best starters tend to contain common letters, to increase the chances of getting yellow and green squares to guide your guessing. (And if you get all grays when guessing common letters, that’s still excellent information to help you rule out possibilities.) There isn’t a single “best” starting word, but the New York Times’s Wordle analysis bot has suggested starting with one of these:

  • CRANE

  • TRACE

  • SLANT

  • CRATE

  • CARTE

Meanwhile, an MIT analysis found that you’ll eliminate the most possibilities in the first round by starting with one of these:

  • SALET

  • REAST

  • TRACE

  • CRATE

  • SLATE

Other good picks might be ARISE or ROUND. Words like ADIEU and AUDIO get more vowels in play, but you could argue that it’s better to start with an emphasis on consonants, using a starter like RENTS or CLAMP. Choose your strategy, and see how it plays out.

How to win at Wordle

We have a few guides to Wordle strategy, which you might like to read over if you’re a serious student of the game. This one covers how to use consonants to your advantage, while this one focuses on a strategy that uses the most common letters. In this advanced guide, we detail a three-pronged approach for fishing for hints while maximizing your chances of winning quickly.

The biggest thing that separates Wordle winners from Wordle losers is that winners use their guesses to gather information about what letters are in the word. If you know that the word must end in -OUND, don’t waste four guesses on MOUND, ROUND, SOUND, and HOUND; combine those consonants and guess MARSH. If the H lights up in yellow, you know the solution.

One more note on strategy: the original Wordle used a list of about 2,300 solution words, but after the game was bought by the NYT, the game now has an editor who hand-picks the solutions. Sometimes they are slightly tricky words that wouldn’t have made the original list, and sometimes they are topical. For example, FEAST was the solution one Thanksgiving. So keep in mind that there may be a theme.

Wordle alternatives

If you can’t get enough of five-letter guessing games and their kin, the best Wordle alternatives, ranked by difficulty, include:

Today’s NYT Connections Hints (and Answer) for Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Today is a tricky one! If you’re looking for the Connections answer for Tuesday, December 12, 2023, read on—I’ll share some clues, tips, and strategies, and finally the solutions to all four categories. Along the way, I’ll explain the meanings of the trickier words and we’ll learn how everything fits together. Beware, there are spoilers below for December 12, NYT Connections #184! Read on if you want some hints (and then the answer) to today’s Connections game. 

If you want an easy way to come back to our Connections hints every day, bookmark this page. You can also find our past hints there as well, in case you want to know what you missed in a previous puzzle.

Below, I’ll give you some oblique hints at today’s Connections answers. And farther down the page, I’ll reveal the themes and the answers. Scroll slowly and take just the hints you need!

NYT Connections board for December 12, 2023: BALL, TAIL, CLOUD, FIN, SHADOW, ICE, FLIPPER, FOG, BUMPER, TRACK, HAZE, IRE, NETHER, PLUNGER, TRAIL, MIST.

Credit: Connections/NYT


Does today’s Connections game require any special knowledge?

Yep! If you love arcade games, but not necessarily video games, you might recognize some specialized terminology. (That link is a spoiler, don’t click it unless you’re ready!)

Hints for the themes in today’s Connections puzzle

Here are some spoiler-free hints for the groupings in today’s Connections:

  • Yellow category – Poor visibility in this weather…

  • Green category – Stay right behind him!

  • Blue category – Hope you brought your quarters.

  • Purple category – This land is their land.

Does today’s Connections game involve any wordplay?

The purple category is a fill-in-the-blank, but a more particular type than we usually see. 

Ready to hear the answers? Keep scrolling if you want a little more help.


BEWARE: Spoilers follow for today’s Connections puzzle!

We’re about to give away some of the answers. Scroll slowly if you don’t want the whole thing spoiled. (The full solution is a bit further down.)

What are the ambiguous words in today’s Connections?

  • A TRACK and a TRAIL can be places to walk. Today they are both in the same category, but in a different sense of the word (they’re verbs today).

  • FIN and FLIPPER can both describe the appendages of aquatic creatures—fish have FINs; seals have FLIPPERs—but these words are in different categories today, and neither refers to animals. 

  • A CLOUD can be literal (in the sky) or metaphorical (like a CLOUD of doubt). Today it may help to think of the fact that FOG is, essentially, a CLOUD that is close enough to the ground you can walk through it. 

  • A PLUNGER can be a device used to unclog a toilet, or any contraption meant to be pushed down, like the PLUNGER of a syringe, or the spring-loaded button that starts a pinball game. 

What are the categories in today’s Connections?

  • Yellow: MURKY CONDITION

  • Green: FOLLOW

  • Blue: PINBALL MACHINE COMPONENTS

  • Purple: ____LAND COUNTRIES

DOUBLE BEWARE: THE SOLUTION IS BELOW

Ready to learn the answers to today’s Connections puzzle? I give them all away below.

What are the yellow words in today’s Connections?

The yellow grouping is considered to be the most straightforward. The theme for today’s yellow group is MURKY CONDITION and the words are: CLOUD, FOG, HAZE, MIST.

What are the green words in today’s Connections?

The green grouping is supposed to be the second-easiest. The theme for today’s green category is FOLLOW and the words are: SHADOW, TAIL, TRACK, TRAIL.

What are the blue words in today’s Connections?

The blue grouping is the second-hardest. The theme for today’s blue category is PINBALL MACHINE COMPONENTS and the words are: BALL, BUMPER, FLIPPER, PLUNGER.

What are the purple words in today’s Connections?

The purple grouping is considered to be the hardest. The theme for today’s purple category is ____LAND COUNTRIES and the words are: ICE, IRE, FIN, NETHER.

How I solved today’s Connections

What’s a PLUNGER doing here? Are we cleaning a toilet? I saw BALL and TRACK and thought maybe we had a Rube Goldberg machine going. Then I saw FLIPPER and realized I was close–it’s a pinball machine. Pinball machines have BUMPERs, FLIPPERs, PLUNGERs, and a BALL. 🟦

FOG, HAZE, and MIST clearly go together. I take a stab at CLOUD to complete the group, and I’m right. 🟨

TRACK and TRAIL seem to go together, and now I see that they are verbs. You can also SHADOW or TAIL someone. 🟩 I didn’t get the final grouping at all, but hey, you only need to solve three groups for a perfect score. 🟪

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How to play Connections

I have a full guide to playing Connections, but here’s a refresher on the rules:

First, find the Connections game either on the New York Times website or in their Crossword app. You’ll see a game board with 16 tiles, each with one word or phrase. Your job is to select a group of four tiles that have something in common. Often they are all the same type of thing (for example: RAIN, SLEET, HAIL, and SNOW are all types of wet weather) but sometimes there is wordplay involved (for example, BUCKET, GUEST, TOP TEN, and WISH are all types of lists: bucket list, guest list, and so on).

Select four items and hit the Submit button. If you guessed correctly, the category and color will be revealed. (Yellow is easiest, followed by green, then blue, then purple.) If your guess was incorrect, you’ll get a chance to try again.

You win when you’ve correctly identified all four groups. But if you make four mistakes before you finish, the game ends and the answers are revealed.

How to win Connections

The most important thing to know to win Connections is that the groupings are designed to be tricky. Expect to see overlapping groups. For example, one puzzle seemed to include six breakfast foods: BACON, EGG, PANCAKE, OMELET, WAFFLE, and CEREAL. But BACON turned out to be part of a group of painters along with CLOSE, MUNCH, and WHISTLER, and EGG was in a group of things that come by the dozen (along with JUROR, ROSE, and MONTH). So don’t hit “submit” until you’ve confirmed that your group of four contains only those four things.

If you’re stuck, another strategy is to look at the words that seem to have no connection to the others. If all that comes to mind when you see WHISTLER is the painting nicknamed “Whistler’s Mother,” you might be on to something. When I solved that one, I ended up googling whether there was a painter named Close, because Close didn’t fit any of the obvious themes, either.

Another way to win when you’re stuck is, obviously, to read a few helpful hints–which is why we share these pointers every day. Check back tomorrow for the next puzzle!

Why You Shouldn’t Force Kids Into Sports (and What You Should Do Instead)

There is plenty of discussion about the risks of kids participating in league sports, but if parents handle things thoughtfully, these leagues can be a great way to keep kids physically active. League sports can also help kids develop social skills by working cooperatively with their peers. 

“You might be able to spark some interest in something they really enjoy,” says Catherine Butz, Ph.D., the Senior Associate Chief for Pediatric Psychology at Nationwide Children’s Hospital, who often works with student athletes.

Of course, the flip-side is that pressuring kids into activities at a young age might backfire. Pushing our children to participate in sports can have negative impacts, such as decreased self-esteem, increased stress, and potential burnout, so it’s important to recognize the signs that they may not be enjoying their sport of choice as much as you might hope.

Let them feel things out

When my boys started becoming interested in playing sports, I was concerned about the financial investment. The cost of gloves, bats, skates, cleats, rackets, and other items can add up fast, and if they become disinterested in a couple of weeks, that’s a lot of money collecting dust in the garage. 

Instead of blindly investing in a bunch of sports equipment, try to find somewhere that will let your kids try things out first. City parks and recreation departments offer low-cost practice sessions that help kids learn the basics of a sport, allowing them to find something they like instead of having us find one for them. For my boys, it’s a fun, low-pressure situation that gives them the basics without worrying about wins and losses. However, I have one rule: They must finish all the practices for the season.

“Parents are there to mold their child and to provide opportunity, but to also give feedback that is often long-lasting,” says Butz. “If you’re letting them stop sports prematurely, then that’s messaging they might take on.”

Let your kids know what they’re getting into

There are some inherent risks to playing contact sports. If your child wants to play tackle football, there’s a higher chance that they could get a concussion than if they were playing volleyball, for example. If they’re concerned about some hazards of playing a sport, it’s important to be transparent, but don’t get carried away.

“I wouldn’t want to scare them because, for some kids, that might never happen, especially given the position they play,” says Butz.

Play with them, even if you’re bad

I’m a horrendous soccer player, but if my son wants to play it outside, I’ll drop everything and join him. He doesn’t care that I’m bad at it; he just likes being outside and doing something he loves. 

“We kept playing tennis as a family even though we’re horrible, and [my son is] obsessed with tennis now,” says Butz. “I think you can really encourage kids by participating with them.”

Stay on the sidelines

Despite what the movies Varsity Blues and Friday Night Lights would have you believe, parents likely won’t force their kids to play sports solely to revisit their glory days or vicariously live through their children’s accomplishments. However, according to Butz, while parental involvement and feedback might come from a good place, they can create an unintended expectation and pressure for kids. It’s a fine line to walk, so try choosing a moment when they’ll be most receptive to what you have to say.

“Allowing the coaches to coach and asking your child if they want feedback from you is key,” says Butz.

Look for the signals

Butz is typically called to intervene when parents see some resistance from student athletes attending practices or games. But those are just some of the signs a child might exhibit that indicate they are uninterested in playing a sport. 

“I think any kind of behavioral disregulation, acting out, changes in their behavior that you don’t typically see, their sleep is disrupted, or they’re not eating as much can be signs that something’s up,” she says.

It might not even have to do with a lack of interest in what they’re playing. Academics and sports are often tied together, and a child could be stressed about their workload. Butz says you know your kids best, so if something seems off, it’s time to open up a line of communication with them and get to the bottom of things.

Make sure they’re having fun

Sports are supposed to be fun, but sometimes the league aspect can get very intense, even in elementary and middle school leagues, leading kids to get burnt out early. Check-in regularly with your child to make sure they’re not overwhelmed. 

“It’s pretty pivotal [to check in regularly], not only to ensure their longevity in the sport but just to see how they’re doing mental health-wise,” says Butz.

Find an alternative

If it seems like your kid is striking out (pun intended) trying to find a sport they like, don’t stress. There are other non-league activities that kids can try to give them the physical activity and social skills they’ll need to carry them into adulthood, such as the sports skills practices mentioned previously. If the team-based aspect is what’s causing your kid difficulty, there are plenty of sports that kids can do solo, like running, or finding a skill or talent that engages them. 

“I think the key is to encourage kids to explore a lot of different interests and see you where they land,” says Butz.

How to Stream Movies and TV in Virtual Reality

I was drawn to virtual reality by the idea that I’d be able to actively immerse myself in other worlds. I loved the idea of light saber action of Beat Saber or getting fit with Supernatural’s boxing workouts. In practice, however, VR’s most satisfying experience for me has been watching Vivarium on a virtual big screen while lying on my back in bed. I had no idea watching a movie could be even more slothful! Share the joy of virtual inactivity with this guide to watching streaming video on your Meta Quest 2 or 3. Speaking of the Quest 3, check out my review, where I put Meta’s new-for-2023 headset through its paces.


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How to watch Netflix on your Meta Quest 2 or 3

Netflix has been available in the virtual world since 2015, and in that time, it hasn’t expanded to offer much beyond basic features. But that’s cool; I just want to watch movies anyway. Setting up Netflix on your Quest couldn’t be easier: Download the app from the Oculus store, log into your account, and you’ll have access to everything you would be able to watch on Netflix on your TV. You can watch movies in either a virtual living room or in “void” mode. I prefer the void because you can position the screen however you like, which for me, means I can lie flat on my back with a big virtual screen on the ceiling.

How to watch Amazon Prime Video on your Meta Quest 2 or 3

Setting up Amazon Prime Video on your Quest 2 or Quest 3 is easy: Download the app. Enter your info. Watch Prime content. Sadly, you can’t rent or purchase movies from Prime directly from the VR app, but you can watch movies you’ve already rented or purchased on other devices. The app itself offers a virtual screening room as well as the option of placing the screen anywhere you like. There’s some VR-specific, 360 degree content you can check out too—things like scuba diving and riding in a hot air balloon. Amazon’s “Watch Party” was announced for VR back in June, 2020, but it doesn’t seem to actually be available. Oh well.

How to watch YouTube on your Meta Quest 2 or 3

YouTube’s VR hub lets you watch all the 2D content YouTube has to offer, as well as 180 degree and 360 degree videos. Setting it up also just involves downloading the app and entering your login info. A lot of YouTube channels are devoted to creating and sharing VR content, so there’s a ton of interesting stuff to check out, from mountain climbing adventures to a completely 3D, 360 degree, immersive trip inside someone else’s closet. YouTube also lets you rent movies directly from its VR app.

How to watch Xtadium on your Meta Quest 3 or Meta Quest 2

Immersive 3D view of a masked wrestler

Credit: XStadium/Stephen Johnson

Sports-watching app Xtadium is a Quest 3 must-download for the novelty value alone: This app lets you watch sports in a new, immersive way. Once you download Xtadium, either from the Meta Quest App or directly from your headset, you can check out live, free NBA games from a court-side seat, sit octagon-side for UFC events, sit right on the turnbuckle for lucha libre wrestling matches (see photo), and more. a 360-degree view of your sport-of-choice is a legit “whoa” moment. Top-notch VR!

How to watch Peacock on your Meta Quest 2 or Quest 3

NBC’s streaming arm has a presence in virtual reality too. The Peacock app is easily downloadable from the Meta Quest app and/or your Quest 2 or Quest 3 headset. Once that’s finished and installed, you can sign in to your Peacock account and watch all of NBC’s content. There’s no special VR frills here—no 3D movies or immersive experiences—but all I want is a big pop-up screen to watch Real Housewives of Miami while lying on my back, and it delivers. It would be nice to be able to move the screen around vertically instead of just horizontally so I could place the screen exactly where I like it. But whatever: Real Housewives is on!

How to watch Disney+, Max, and other streaming services on your Meta Quest 2 or 3

If you prefer Hulu, Paramount, or another streaming service that doesn’t have a dedicated VR app for Meta, you can still watch their content. You just need to point your VR browser to the appropriate site, enter your information, and start streaming. These will not be 3D or VR streams, obviously. I streamed some video from Max using the Quest’s built-in browser and it worked great, but how smooth it all flows will depend on your internet speed.

How to watch video files from your computer with your Quest 2 or 3

The easiest way to watch videos from your PC on your headset is to transfer them to the headset. It’s easily done, but you’ll need a USB-C cable to connect them. Once you’ve done that, it’s a simple matter of transferring the file onto your headset and watching your content on any of the many video players for Quest headsets.

If you want to stream movies directly from your PC or Mac to your Quest headset, the Skybox VR app will do it, as will Bigscreen (more on Bigscreen, below). Skybox is $9.99, but it is a highly rated app that is reportedly easy to use, and allows you to stream anything from 2D movies to 3D movies to full virtual reality videos. Bigscreen, however is free.

Bigscreen: How to have a uniquely VR movie-streaming experience on your Quest 2 or 3

While the “big name” video services like Netflix and Prime Video are basically no-frills ways of watching movies and TV on your headset, the Bigscreen app is all frills, and I’m here for it. This free app offers avatars, props, social interaction, and more. It lets you set up a Remote Desktop Client and stream video directly from your PC to your Quest 2 or 3 as well, and, again, it’s free.

Bigscreen allows users to host and join viewing parties where you and some friends (or interested strangers) can rent the same movie, eat virtual popcorn, and chill out. You can watch ad-supported movies or rent them from the service, but everyone watching has to pay for the same movie.

Bigscreen also has public viewing rooms where anyone can join a viewing party for a ton of different movies and TV shows, from Rick and Morty, to old episodes of Doctor Who, to Bob Ross’ painting show, and more. This morning, I popped into a virtual theater to watch a little of Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers, then had a surprisingly awesome time watching a re-run of Dr. Phil with a bunch of strangers in a virtual living room. We were throwing tomatoes at the screen, heckling the guests, and otherwise having a Tuesday morning party.

How to Recycle, Repurpose, or Dispose of Broken Christmas Lights

It’s almost inevitable that when you pull out your holiday decorations for the season, at least one bulb or strand of lights will be broken, burnt out, or malfunctioning. Sometimes, fixing seemingly busted Christmas lights is as simple as swapping a dead bulb or two (and strands usually come with a few extras) or replacing a blown fuse. But whether your lights are beyond repair or simply no longer needed, you shouldn’t resort to tossing them in the trash.

How to repurpose Christmas lights

Depending on the state of your light strands, there are a few ways to reuse them for holiday decor. If a handful of bulbs are broken or out—too many to replace, but not enough to scrap the strand entirely—stuff them in a glass jar or vase to create a festive light fixture or a nightlight for your kid’s room. This is also a great way to make use of extra fully functioning string lights that would otherwise stay in the box, which you can also add to a wreath or a garland or even hang year-round.

If the strand is completely busted, use it to tie up gifts. If you have a strand with large vintage bulbs, paint or spray paint the individual bulbs and gather ribbon, twine, and glitter to create ornaments, napkin rings, wreath attachments, or a standalone garland.

How to donate Christmas lights

If you don’t have a purpose for gently used light strands that still work, try finding them a new home. You can list them for free on Freecycle, Facebook Marketplace, or Nextdoor. You could also gift them to crafty, DIY-minded friends, family, or neighbors, or look for a community organization, such as an after-school program, church, shelter, or assisted living center that might accept donations of holiday decorations.

How to recycle Christmas lights

If your lights can’t be repurposed or donated, there are a handful of ways to dispose of them besides dumping them in your trash bin.

Drop off at your local hardware store

Retailers like The Home Depot, Lowe’s, Ace Hardware, and TruValue accept old Christmas lights and will recycle them for you (and sometimes will offer deals on new strings with trade-in). Note that this service may not be available at every location or outside of the holiday season, so call ahead.

If you live in the mid-Atlantic with a nearby MOM’s Organic Market, you can drop off your lights (in any condition) for recycling during their winter holiday lights drive.

If none of these pans out, local recycling companies that offer metal recycling may be able to take your old holiday lights. Check your municipal services website as well as specialty recyclers (just don’t dump lights in your curbside bin).

Check with your local thrift store

Goodwill and Salvation Army generally accept working string lights for recycling, as will Habitat for Humanity ReStore. As with hardware stores, call ahead or check donation guidelines online before dumping boxes of old lights.

Use a mail-in recycling service

If there’s no local option, several companies offer mail-in holiday light recycling year-round. Holiday LEDs accepts string lights via USPS, UPS, or FedEx, or you can drop off if you happen to live in or near Sussex, WI. Green Citizen offers in-person recycling for those in the Bay Area, but you can also mail your lights in at a cost of $1 per pound. Christmas Light Source has shut down its recycling program as of November 2023.

15 of the Best Species of Live Christmas Trees (and Which to Choose)

If you celebrate Christmas, you probably have a decorated tree set up somewhere in your house. As a kid, the tree in my house was a dusty old artificial model that had to be assembled branch by branch. We always kept it in the basement, stuffed into a cardboard box, and every holiday season, unboxing it was a game of Spider Or Not?

At some point my parents decided a real, live tree would be a more dignified option (which changed our annual game to one of Squirrel Family or Not?), and thus began our tradition of standing around various parking lots while gruff men cheerfully sold us what appeared to my young eyes to be a random pine tree.

But these trees weren’t random! And nor should they be: You actually have a surprisingly wide range of tree species to choose from for the centerpiece of your holiday decorating. If you’re in the market for a real Christmas tree this year, here are the 15 best types—and why you would choose each one over all the other trees in the lot.

The Fraser Fir

Fraser Fir tree branches

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The Fraser Fir is one of the most popular choices in the country for Christmas trees. Native to the Southeastern U.S. (according to the North Carolina Christmas Tree Association, 58 million are grown in that state alone), the Fraser Fir can be recognized by the silvery underside to its needles. These trees last a long time in your living room—up to six weeks—and don’t shed their needles too badly, and their branches are sturdy and hold decorations easily. So if you’re looking for a tree that will still look good when you finally give in to societal pressure and take it down some time in late January, this is the way.

Colorado Blue Spruce

Colorado Blue Spruce trees

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If you want something a little different, a Colorado Blue Spruce is a good choice. It has a distinct bluish tinge instead of the traditional green, and it grows into a near-perfect triangle shape. While you have to consider the color when selecting ornaments, with a little thought, the Blue Spruce can have a major impact on your holiday decor. Plus, it’s a sturdy tree with branches that can hold heavy ornaments without trouble. Like a lot of sturdy trees, however, the Colorado Blue Spruce will have its revenge on you via its extremely pin-like needles, which will stab you relentlessly unless you wear gloves while decorating.

Balsam Fir

Balsam Fir trees

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If the main reason you love a real Christmas tree is that pine-y scent that reminds you of being out in a snowy wood at night, the Balsam Fir is your choice. Featuring flat, dark needles, the Balsam is one of the most fragrant species of tree traditionally used for the holidays. One of the downsides is its fragility: Balsams dry out fast (though they do tend to hang onto their needles), so keeping them watered is essential—but even so, you probably won’t want them in the house for too long after the last of the eggnog has been sipped. Its branches are also fairly flexible, which makes them no good for heavy ornaments or a lot of decorations, as the branches will sag and let them slip off. But if you want that holiday smell in the air, go Balsam.

Douglas Fir

Douglas fir trees

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The stately Douglas Fir typically has a perfect triangular shape and a full-bodied presence that makes it perfect for big rooms. If you like to set up in a room that makes most trees look like Charlie Brown’s, a Douglas Fir will fill the space nicely. The tree also smells great, filling your home with a Christmas-y scent. The needles are soft, so this tree won’t hurt you, but its branches aren’t terribly strong, so don’t hang a lot of heavy ornaments on it.

Grand Fir

Grand fir tree branches

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Aromatic and sporting a lush, dark green color, Grand Fir trees have soft needles that can get as long as two inches, though 1-1/2 inches is typical. This makes them a great choice for a minimalist decoration scheme, because Grand Fir trees look beautiful all on their own. If you’re the type who puts some tasteful garland and a few specific ornaments on your tree, a Grand Fir can fill in the rest nicely. It also smells great, making the whole house smell like Christmas.

Noble Fir

Noble Fir branches

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Combining impressive scale with sturdy branches that can hold a lot of weight, the Noble Fir is a big tree that fills up spaces. The Noble also sports attractive cones that add a bit of depth to the look, making these trees a good choice for a minimalist decoration scheme, as well (not to mention a great choice for wreaths and other non-tree decorations). That means if you have an enormous Great Room but you don’t like a ton of garish ornaments, the Noble Fir will scale well without requiring a six-hour trimming section—toss on some garland, and go have a drink.

Virginia Pine

Virginia Pine tree branches

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If you want a tree that smells great and does the job of being a Christmas Tree very well but doesn’t break the bank, your most budget-friendly choice is probably the Virginia Pine. It looks like a Christmas Tree should, its branches are strong and can carry plenty of ornaments, and it’s probably going to be the lowest price point at your tree lot, though of course, prices will vary. That being said, the Virginia Pine has one major downside: It is sticky AF. There is a lot of sap in these trees, and if you don’t wear gloves when you handle it, there will be a lot of sap on you.

White Fir

White Fir tree

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Do you regularly kill houseplants? Have you occasionally forgotten to feed pets, or even your own children? Then the virtually unkillable White Fir is the perfect choice for your Christmas Tree needs. With a beautiful cone shape, a pale, blue-green color, and long, soft needles, the White Fir will look the part with style. But its hardiness is why you want one: This is a tree you can set up, admire for one night, then go on a two-week vacation—and it will be fine when you get back.

Arizona Cypress

Arizona Cypress branches

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With a pale, gray-green hue and small needles, the Arizona Cypress offers a different look for your holiday decorating. The contrast between the pale green needles and the reddish branches will make it pop no matter what you hang on it—and in fact, it’s a good choice for both minimalists and folks who have seven boxes of family ornaments that absolutely must be hung every year. If you’re looking for something just a little off-beat, this is a great choice.

Norway Spruce

Norway Spruce trees

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If you want to go big and glamorous, why not choose the same tree species that’s featured at Rockefeller Center in New York City every year—the Norway Spruce. It’s a lush, gorgeous tree with a bright green, festive coloring, and looks like a Christmas tree from a holiday card. There’s one major drawback: The Norway Spruce is delicate, and won’t last much longer than a week, even if you water it dutifully (which you must). On the other hand, that makes it ideal for all you Scrooge-adjacent humbugs who reluctantly decorate for Christmas the week of and take everything down the moment the last piece of wrapping paper is discarded.

Scotch Pine

Scotch Pine tree branches

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The Scotch Pine (sometimes called a Scots Pine) is a good choice if you have a lot of heavy ornaments to hang, because the branches are strong and curve slightly upward, almost as if they were designed to hold that heirloom ornament apparently made from solid lead. They also retain their needles and tolerate neglect, meaning if you forget to water them, they still look great. That makes a Scotch Pine a great choice if you put your tree up on Black Friday and leave it there until spring, but that kind of longevity comes with a catch: Its needles are tiny murder razors. Seriously, wear gloves while handling.

White Pine

White Pine tree branches

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If you’re not much into ornaments and want a basic, low-cost, low-maintenance tree, the White Pine is a good choice. It’s easy to find and generally on the cheaper end, it has soft needles and low scent, so it won’t cause trouble, and it looks really nice. That being said, the branches are wimpy and won’t hold ornaments well, so this is a good tree for someone who strings some lights and calls it a day. This also makes it a good tree for homes with lots of little kids, because it won’t scratch them, make them too sticky, and it’s a good tree for paper garlands and other low-density, homemade decorations.

Leeland Cypress

Leeland Cypress trees

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If you suffer from allergies, you might notice that bringing a real tree into the house doesn’t help matters. In that case, a Leyland Cypress—most popular in the Southeast—is a good choice. It’s an attractive tree with soft needles, but it produces no pollen (it’s a sterile hybrid), doesn’t have a strong smell, and doesn’t produce sap. That makes it as close to a hypoallergenic tree as you can get and still have a real Christmas tree in your house.

Nordmann Fir

Nordmann Fir tree branches

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The Nordmann Fir is almost the perfect average Christmas tree. It has a nice triangular shape, tolerates drought well, and sports soft needles that don’t fall off easily. It’s a tree that won’t stand out, but also won’t disappoint, so if you’re the type who doesn’t want to spend more than five minutes picking out a tree, the Nordmann Fir is an excellent choice because you can’t go wrong. Plus, if you’re not looking to make your whole house smell like Christmas, this is a low-scent option.

European Silver Fir

European Silver Fir tree branches

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The European Silver Fir is an old-school choice for Christmas trees in Europe. If you have a lot of large ornaments that need space to shine, this tree species features widely-spaced branches that work well with larger decorations. You can also use (electric) candles with this tree for a really traditional look because there’s plenty of room between the branches. The European Silver Fir has slipped a bit in popularity as a holiday tree, but is ideal for folks seeking some historical charm.

How to Host the Best Freakin’ Holiday Cookie Exchange Ever

A good holiday cookie exchange can leave you feeling cozy, content, and full of joy and sugar. A bad cookie exchange is disappointing, unexpectedly competitive, and might make you realize there is such a thing as too many cookies. Don’t let a terrible cookie exchange come to pass. Follow these tips to host a cookie jamboree that your guests lovingly reminisce about well into the new year.

1. Get organized

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A cookie exchange, or swap, is a kind of holiday party where you ask each guest to bring one type of cookie. Everyone arrives with their offerings and you end up with a variety of festive colors, flavors, and combinations for everyone to taste and bring home. To keep it as simple as it sounds, it helps to stay organized. I know spreadsheets aren’t for everyone, but some sort of document will save you a lot of confusion. Even if it’s handwritten, you want some sort of register where you can keep track of who’s bringing what. This will prevent repeat cookies from showing up at your table too. Double or triple plates of peanut butter cookies might not sound so bad, but they’re the most likely to be the source of unspoken cookie competitions. Avoid cookie feuds, and tell invitees they can bring whatever they want but there will be no repeats. Odds are that they’ll get back to you ASAP with what they intend to bring, which means your guest list gets sorted that much quicker.

2. Ask about food allergies

While you’re out there inviting people, get a list of dietary restrictions. It’s pretty damn disappointing to go to a party and find that you can only eat one thing—the thing you brought. You don’t have to micromanage what other folks contribute, but it’s not a bad idea to provide a few options to ensure your gluten-sensitive guests have something delicious to munch on. Since you now have a list of who’s bringing what, you can make tags with each cookie’s name, and what common allergens it contains. If you’ve got a friend with mild nut allergies, consider having a nut-free cookie station.

3. Decide on quantity and quality

You know there’s a friend who’ll bring three dozen cookies, and someone who’ll bring seven single cookies. It’s a good idea to ask that everyone bring a particular number. Usually one or two dozen cookies per person is sufficient. Then consider quality. Not so much if everyone is using Plugra butter, but if purchased cookies are okay. You know your friends better than they do sometimes. If you’re sure hell needs to freeze over before they’ll ever bring a wooden spoon to butter, allow them to buy their contribution from a professional. Local bakeries make some fabulous holiday cookies, so why not sample their wares? I would stop there though. There’s something decidedly un-festive about two boxes of Entenmann’s showing up on your table.

4. Consider the layout

I’ve been to cookie exchanges where all of the cookies are laid out on one big table. Then the participants line up and do a quirky conga-line, snaking around the table. It gives me buffet-at-a-wedding vibes, and I don’t love it. I generally enjoy more informal roaming, so I’ve had three or four cookie areas for friends to wander over to. I’m sure this also has to do with apartment life and the lack of a dining room table, but I’ll have groups of cookies on a coffee table, TV console, desk, end table or kitchen counter. Not only does this prevent crowding and waiting, but it gives you easy separation for those dietary restrictions as well.

5. Supply takeout containers

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Provide paper containers and paper bags (or reusable totes you hate). You can ask your guests to bring their own containers, but there will always be a few friends who forget theirs, or foolishly bring small ones. I prefer the long, rectangular, paper sort with the tab top. They’re affordable, disposable, and flexible so the top can bulge without crunching any cookies, but structured enough to give some protection. Have your guests load up their spoils straight into these containers.

6. Prevent tons of leftovers

Encourage guests to “exchange” first, and eat second. Guests can mill about with their take out containers and, depending on the amount of cookies you asked people to bring, take a few of each kind. Once everyone’s been through and filled their boxes, open up the floor to general face-stuffing. This is when the real eating and complementing begins. With the packing up out of the way, everything else is fair game. When all is winding down, invite everyone to take a few more for the road, and don’t forget to save some for yourself.

Today’s Wordle Hints (and Answer) for Monday, December 11, 2023

If you’re looking for the Wordle answer for December 11, 2023 read on. We’ll share some clues, tips, and strategies, and finally the solution. Today’s puzzle is another easy one; I got it in three. Beware, there are spoilers below for December 11, Wordle #905! Keep scrolling if you want some hints (and then the answer) to today’s Wordle game.

How to play Wordle

Wordle lives here on the New York Times website. A new puzzle goes live every day at midnight, your local time.

Start by guessing a five-letter word. The letters of the word will turn green if they’re correct, yellow if you have the right letter in the wrong place, or gray if the letter isn’t in the day’s secret word at all. For more, check out our guide to playing Wordle here, and my strategy guide here for more advanced tips. (We also have more information at the bottom of this post, after the hints and answers.)

Ready for the hints? Let’s go!


Does today’s Wordle have any unusual letters?

We’ll define common letters as those that appear in the old typesetters’ phrase ETAOIN SHRDLU. (Memorize this! Pronounce it “Edwin Shirdloo,” like a name, and pretend he’s a friend of yours.)

All five are common letters today!

Can you give me a hint for today’s Wordle?

It’s the place where you live, perhaps.

Does today’s Wordle have any double or repeated letters?

Nope, five different letters today.

How many vowels are in today’s Wordle?

There are three vowels today, all different.

What letter does today’s Wordle start with?

Today’s word starts with H.

What letter does today’s Wordle end with?

Today’s word ends with E.

What is the solution to today’s Wordle?

Ready? Today’s word is HOUSE.

How I solved today’s Wordle

The green ___SE was a great start, but I’m still potentially missing some vowels, so I go with my trusty second of TOUCH next. Looks like we’re dealing with _OUSE with a yellow H. It’s as good as solved: today’s word must be HOUSE.

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A primer on Wordle basics

The idea of Wordle is to guess the day’s secret word. When you first open the Wordle game, you’ll see an empty grid of letters. It’s up to you to make the first move: type in any five-letter word. 

Now, you can use the colors that are revealed to get clues about the word: 

  • Green means you correctly guessed a letter, and it’s in the correct position. (For example, if you guess PARTY, and the word is actually PURSE, the P and R will be green.)

  • Yellow means the letter is somewhere in the word, but not in the position you guessed it. (For example, if you guessed PARTY, but the word is actually ROAST, the R, A and T will all be yellow.)

  • Gray means the letter is not in the solution word at all. (If you guessed PARTY and everything is gray, then the solution cannot be PURSE or ROAST.)

With all that in mind, guess another word, and then another, trying to land on the correct word before you run out of chances. You get six guesses, and then it’s game over.

The best starter words for Wordle

What should you play for that first guess? The best starters tend to contain common letters, to increase the chances of getting yellow and green squares to guide your guessing. (And if you get all grays when guessing common letters, that’s still excellent information to help you rule out possibilities.) There isn’t a single “best” starting word, but the New York Times’s Wordle analysis bot has suggested starting with one of these:

  • CRANE

  • TRACE

  • SLANT

  • CRATE

  • CARTE

Meanwhile, an MIT analysis found that you’ll eliminate the most possibilities in the first round by starting with one of these:

  • SALET

  • REAST

  • TRACE

  • CRATE

  • SLATE

Other good picks might be ARISE or ROUND. Words like ADIEU and AUDIO get more vowels in play, but you could argue that it’s better to start with an emphasis on consonants, using a starter like RENTS or CLAMP. Choose your strategy, and see how it plays out.

How to win at Wordle

We have a few guides to Wordle strategy, which you might like to read over if you’re a serious student of the game. This one covers how to use consonants to your advantage, while this one focuses on a strategy that uses the most common letters. In this advanced guide, we detail a three-pronged approach for fishing for hints while maximizing your chances of winning quickly.

The biggest thing that separates Wordle winners from Wordle losers is that winners use their guesses to gather information about what letters are in the word. If you know that the word must end in -OUND, don’t waste four guesses on MOUND, ROUND, SOUND, and HOUND; combine those consonants and guess MARSH. If the H lights up in yellow, you know the solution.

One more note on strategy: the original Wordle used a list of about 2,300 solution words, but after the game was bought by the NYT, the game now has an editor who hand-picks the solutions. Sometimes they are slightly tricky words that wouldn’t have made the original list, and sometimes they are topical. For example, FEAST was the solution one Thanksgiving. So keep in mind that there may be a theme.

Wordle alternatives

If you can’t get enough of five-letter guessing games and their kin, the best Wordle alternatives, ranked by difficulty, include: